Chaos and Drama

In this 35th year of my life, I have come to realize that I have so much more to learn about human beings and human nature. I have this one nagging topic that rears it's head that is related to how people treat others. I KNOW I can not change anyone's actions or thoughts, even if I see them as hurtful and just plain wrong (in my opinion), but I wish I could.

I know for my own sanity, I need to step away from the situation that is causing frustration, and just let it take its own course since it does not have to do with my immediate family. The problem is, I hate seeing well meaning people get hurt. That I do have a problem with, but I think most individuals with a conscience do also. So what do I do? What can I do? Nothing. I need to accept that. I need to realize that I am really an outsider to the situation. I can't be in another person's head, though it would be interesting to be.

Please note, the issue is NOT one of direct physical abuse or any other type of major abuse, it is about human relations, and how different two or more people could look at the same situation. If it was about abuse, then yes, I would take proper action.

For myself, it is a realization that thinking about an issue that is not directly impacting my immediate family or myself is really a waste of my emotions and mental energy, both of which need a break.

It is so easy to get caught up in drama. I think as a society, especially the American society, a lot of us thrive on having constant drama in our lives. Why? Are we so afraid to have peace, stability, and quiet that we need constant chaos? I do not know the answer. All I know is that I don't want it in my life anymore.

When drama comes into life, it takes away the focus of the important things: love, warmth, understanding, creativity, and being true to one's self. I don't want to lose focus on those things anymore. I value myself, my family, and my time way too much.